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I wonder sometimes how MICA functioned before there was micamail. You can imagine MICA without any other single piece of infrastructure, except micamail. Even as you read this, many will have micamail open on the other tab. Its not that you use it all the time, but it’s reassuring to know it’s there, no?

Every once in a while, I refresh the page. Some permanent facets of the page invariably are- a random lost and found article, someone calling out for ‘Footy at 5’ and almost definitely, an input from Ashok Chauhan declaring the interest the Indian print media takes in the happenings on our campus.

I don’t open any of them. They are part of the 8,120 unread mails that are lying in my inbox right now. But I also don’t delete them. If you strung together every email sent from the time you fist accessed that account (after a particularly trying session with the IT guys), till date, you could find an interesting story to tell. Micamail is a kind of a ‘sutradhar’, if you will, of everything that happens here. The fights people had, the jokes they cracked, the assignments they auctioned for Shikari Chicken (read: Lakshmi & Rana) and the general mundane events that happened all through the day. I doubt there is any PGP1 batch in history, at least about 50% of which haven’t lost their umbrellas in the first term and dutifully reported it on micamail.

I also doubt there are too many people out there who haven’t been terminated. While that particular micamail activity is the subject for another blogpost, micamail for PGP17 spawned the very popular SISA awards (Annual Summer Internship SPAM Awards). While that brings many, many memories of the boredom of those initial internship days, it is a very grand celebration of micamail and how it enriches (!) our lives.

I opened the spam (and, of course, about half a dozen important mails) to read intense micamail discussions interrupted by Vamsi and Divyanshu’s private conversations. Then there was the time of ‘Babloooooooooo’ which began every internship week (for us as well as Ashok Chauhan, who most definitely must have been very puzzled!). And of course, there was TD, adding her two bits to the spam. There were also those mails that complaining about the large number of (unnecessary) assignments- that were inadvertently sent to the concerned faculty! This also led to the inclusion of a mandatory line adopted by all CoCos while sending mails-“Please note: This mail has also been marked to ‘insert Prof. Name’ and his/her RA”.

Very soon, our group id- pgp2@micamail.in, will be lost. It will be passed on through generations of micans, just like it was handed down to us. But rest assured, the spamming will continue. Umbrellas will continue to be lost, and deadlines will continue to be extended. And legend has it, that long after we leave this campus, and get busy with the nitty-gritties of the real world, we will return- about a year later, with the words- “Tax return file kiya kya?”.

Chhota. That one small (quite literally) word that could describe my whole time here at MICA- every midnight conversation, every steaming cup of chai (that RK would most definitely call ‘kadak aur meethi’), those tyre swings.

In fact, in my head, the image of Chhota will always be that one Rana made in PGP1. That picture has been used and overused so many times, that I don’t even need to link it into this post. Oh what the hell, you’re gonna google it anyway! Here you go!

This morning every one walked up to Chhota to see that glorious sight- a refrigerator filled with cold drinks, the shelf full of chips and biscuits and of course, the one, most coveted, special snack- Maggi. I wolfed down one at about 11am this morning (don’t judge me!) and thought of all those things this place means to us. It is the place so many people shot to fame- an alumni directory of the who’s who of MICA’s gastronomic geniuses. The Imran of the Sandwich, the Anish of the Paratha, the Manvi of the rice- go down in history as the most popular Micans of all time.

But the list doesn’t end there. The names of the dishes of Chhota tell the tale of what so many people experienced there- sitting on those benches, day and night, sharing stories and lives between cigarette puffs and sips of Nimbu Paani. Chaar Palaash, the Crafting, the Ghosal Thali- every one of  them is one tasty story waiting to be told. It doesn’t matter that the ‘Italian’ (as it is fondly called) has absolutely nothing to do with Italy. Neither does the Manchurian hail from China. All that mattered was that at 2am, when we walked up to Chhota, Kishorbhai always had something ready.

I’ve fought with Lakshmi over the one perfectly aligned tube (that would retire to its crooked ways in a day or so), I’ve spend many solitary afternoons there with just the chai. I have screamed over the counter when the mess made South Indian (ugh!).

Chhota is so much more than just a culinary alternative on campus. It is the stuff a Mican is made of. The fact that it becomes a big part of culturalization is no coincidence. Being the only official smoking area on campus, you can find Matthew here more than in his office! And it always, always has Nimbu Pani.

I dedicate this post to whose birthday happened to fall on this day- Neha Kulkarni. Neha is one of the people who make MICA what it is for me. She is probably the most understatedly awesome person I have ever met. I know the looks I’ll get when she reads this, but I know I’ll miss her like hell! I will avoid going on and on about her though (for fear of borrowing too much from that dreaded thing called the testimonial) but her birthday was definitely a good start to the end of our days at MICA.

But this post is also a dedication to the one MICA phenomenon that is associated with a lot of people (including Neha)- the walk. The MICA walk is many things. It is an indicator of relationships to be for, it is a gossip session in itself for others, it is a desperate, intermittent, and mostly unsuccessful attempt by some others to lose weight.

A very wise soul once said, that Facebook should have a relationship status exclusively for MICA called ‘is taking walks with’. The walk- a simple act of traversing the path from the cricket ground, past Chhota, around the football field, through the parking lot, all the way till Nescafe and back- has been the cause and location of many friendships that erupted in discreet corners of Palaash, Parijat and Silver Oak. It is also the cause of many a love that bloomed on campus (and sometimes met an early demise) and also of many, many discussions of everything under the sun. In the same breath, we talked about placement woes and whether they’ll make biryani in the mess tonight. It was where we fought over what-letter-of-the-alphabet school MICA is.

The walk in MICA, for whatever it means to all of us, will always be a special memory. We’ll remember those precise moments when we discovered each other and (for want of a better cliché), ourselves.

This is my personal attempt to capture all that MICA means to be by chronicling the last 31 days that I have to spend here. For the rest of this month, I will try and document all that happens, through at least a post a day.

Its the end of 2 years of a very arbitrary decision I made in life and its a little bittersweet. I’m not exactly nostalgic right now (also a reason I haven’t gotten down to writing the testimonials). But I’m sure I’ll get there. I began life in MICA with MICA rules that many loved, hated and ridiculed. But #31daysinMICA is more for my own self than for anyone else.

It is a an attempt to salvage a little last bit of the experience. It is the creation of a time capsule to read and, hopefully, cherish many years later.

1. The highest peak, the longest walk, the toughest climb, seems completely doable when the NC junta is around

2. No matter what, we always sing!

3. You see a place you’ve never seen before, talk to people you’ve never known, do thing’s you’ve never imagined, and come back with more stories than you can keep count of!

4. The C.O.M. (If you don’t know what that stands for, go for a camp!!!!)

5. On the first camp, the people I knew were 0. So what?

6. There’s never a dull moment! Even when you really really wishing there would be! ;)

7. You’ll see birds you can never remember the names of (& hence get whacked ;) )

8. You’ll possible even see an animal you will never forget for the rest of your life. In my case this was a tiger…

9. After a tiring day, trekking in some beautiful forest in the middle of nowhere, you sleep better than you would, any other day, any other time….

10. And, somewhere, on the banks of a distant river somewhere, or maybe sitting on a hill, overlooking the forest, you find yourself…
I know I did….

There is a little white mark on the back of my right hand. You’ll never even see it till you know it’s there. Today I look at it and I remember that face. That face, who was always growling when he saw me. Always angry because I was responsible for putting him behind bars…or two sticks across the living room door in this case.

He mistrusted me with the most unadulterated, most pure mistrust that only a dog is capable of and yet there was something unmistakeably endearing about him. Every doorbell was greeted with sharp loud barks and every attempt at forging peace disregarded with a statutory growl.

When I write this obituary for Foxy aka Gabbu, I’m filled with a lot of memories but most of those aren’t mine to share. All I know is that here was a dog who loved his family so much; he could do anything to protect them. Here was a dog so beautiful that it broke my heart every time, knowing he would never like me.

But that little puppy who once tumbling into this world unannounced and unwanted has left in his wake so much for everyone to miss. He left behind a place that no one can ever fill and took with him a little piece of our hearts.

And now, every time, I see that little white mark on the back of my right hand, I’ll remember that growling face and those big brown eyes and hope that he has found his peace.

For the chaser-of-sparrows, fearer-of-firecrackers and the barker-at-urchins, I really did like you…

After having obscenely publicized all my travels and convincing almost everyone I could find here at MICA that I love travelling, it was more than 2 months into the course and the furthest I had gone from the campus was to Iscon Megamall (!). So here we were, one fine morning, set out to explore the hinterland, to a place called Lothal.

My companions here, whom i shall hereon refer to as Bora and Bong, were only too excited but neither of us had any idea whether we would actually reach Lothal. Our research was just a random google search, some info about train schedules and a lot of help from Google Earth.

For beginners, we rushed to the mess in the morning and stocked up on upma, bread and 3 glorious eggs (another blog about this later). Now i had woken up Bora and Bong really early on a rest day. That it considered a criminal offence in MICA. But i was so afraid we would miss the train to Lothal (which is painfully infrequent) that instead, we ended up reaching almost an hour before the train actually arrived!

Now what? We spent the next hour clicking random stupid pictures of ourselves, railway tracks, dogs, kids, shadows, hands, feet and almost everything that could be photographed! Now Bora and Bong (Bong more than Bora) were used to a relative level of comfort in their earlier travels. So the train came as a bit of a shock. Hee Haw Haw!

Like any other train in India, the Ahmedabad- Botad Passenger train was jam-packed with men, women, children, bags, boxes and their respective odours. Eventually we all did get a place to sit, but this probably wasn’t the best part of the trip-yet.

Lothal Bhurkhi Station is about 2 hours away from Ahmedabad. Just like Sarkhej where we boarded the train, this one too is a non-descript scar on the landscape that no one could care less about. Nevertheless, for us, it was nothing short of the Eiffel Tower. So we spent the first 10 minutes in the statin clicking even more pictures. It was only later that we realised that we missed the ‘Chaggda’ ride that would take us to the Lothal Site some 7 kms away! But it was still early in the day and enthusiasm was running high. So we decided to walk. Yeah!

About 3.5 kms later, we had comfortably plonked our butts on the burning tar road and had devoured nearly half of the upma. The sun was white hot above our heads and i could actually feel myself melting away. But there was hope- 2 kms away from the site, we found a mini-tempo transporting people to villages in the vicinity. With not a moment to lose, we hopped on and for a sum of Rs.10 (no kidding!) we reached the site.

Now the Lothal Site is nothing much more than a big pile of bricks and strange looking structures. Without a visit to the museum and a guided tour around the site, it would mean nothing. The museum in itself is awesome. Some of the artefacts found there are proof to the fact that we are now evolving backwards! Their jewellery, articles of daily use, toys and even a couple of skeletons (spooky!) have been restored. The museum was a real highlight of the trip.

We spent the day there, sitting by what was erstwhile dockyard and consuming 3 packets of Hippo!

The way back from the site was pretty uneventful. We found a rickshaw back to the station and came back to Ahmedabad in a doubly crowded train. But by this time Bora, Bong and I were so tired that we slept even in the most uncomfortable of positions in the train and awoke only moments before reaching Sarkhej again.

In the end, we were even a little surprised at ourselves for even having managed to complete the trip!

I will not tag anyone in this post,
it is for my closest friends,
they know who they are,
and they’ll find themselves in this poem:

Another day will dawn and Wilson College will throw its gates open.

ID-cards in their hands, dreams in their eyes and not a clue in their head, they’ll step in.

Another FYBMM will embark on their journey just like we did.

They’ll have that first lecture with Sudhakar Sir again and they’ll be scared of him…

They’ll make those quick friendships, those sudden ‘love’ affairs, started by some teasing…

They’ll spend rainy afternoons by the beach and of course,

Click those pictures…

They’ll have fun through their first Polaris, the ones in Security…the ones in 104…

They’ll discover themselves as they discover projects

The first night up before Suddhu’s (that’s what they’ll learn to call him) submission

It won’t help really. They’ll come five minutes after 7:30…the train was late of course!

Then they’ll spend the next two days getting him to accept the project.

Phone bills will shoot up, hours spent at home will plummet.

Parents will worry, wardens will warn and they’ll be at this one’s place…chilling…

The fights will happen too, big ones, small ones, i-can’t-do-another-project-with-him ones…

The breakups will happen too.

Bitter and frivolous…and we’ll be friends again

They’ll be divided and united…and maybe someday, they’ll boycott an exam of their own…

All this, before the first I.V.

Another FYBMM will embark on their journey just like we did.

I don’t know if this is their story or ours…

But it sure is one helluva story, isn’t it?

Often, some trips, some treks lodge themselves in memory and refuse to budge. What makes them so memorable is usually a very disastrous incident. Injured trekkers, water shortages or even adventures of roughing it out in the outdoors in the mornings (ahem!) are part of the deal. But the trek to Rajmachi last weekend, on the 1st and 2nd of May, had none of these. It was, well, ordinary. Almost forgettably so. But even then, I remember it well enough to write this piece. I remember it well because in some way, all of us were high on Rajmachi.
So there we were after weeks of co-ordinating. Twelve of us met at the Lonavala station, all geared up to the long walk up to the fort. The demographics of the group were slightly unusual. Being an unofficial trek, the number of ex-students (Anish, Rohan, Rucha, Gayatri and Jovy) was almost the same as the number of current students (Anujeet, Vallari, Mili, Ryan, Supraket and me). We even had a non-NC member, Kedar, with us.
In his usual Commander-in-chief style, Anish rounded us up and began the march towards the fort at about 6p.m. But all this was not before we ensured that all of us had at least 3 litres of water and enough food to last the night.
Now, loaded with enough water to flood the fort and bags full of Cup Noodles, we started walking. The first stop of our destination was to be the Tungarli Dam, which was the beginning of the actual trek. To reach here we passed the quiet bylanes of Lonavala. Here, I take a moment to mention that Lonavala was a beautiful place. I use the past tense here, because Mumbai seems to have slowly clawed itself into this quiet hilly resort in the form of empty Pepsi bottles and gutka packets which litter the floor. Also, if I have seen a place with an even bigger stray dog problem than Mumbai, it is here. Nevertheless, we walked on till a point where human encroachment (illegal or otherwise) reached a minimum. The only reminders of the scary metropolis in the making below were huge gravel-laden trucks and monstrous bulldozers. According to Mili, our very own Lonavala girl, they were making a road on the hill, which once comfortable motorable, would enable the government to sell the surrounding area. Hmm…
Our trek upwards, was oddly, not upwards at all! We were sort of walking, endlessly, on a long undulating path. It was narrow and covered with dust and gravel bits thrown off from the bulldozers. We went up and down and up again. We walked at a comfortable pace too, lest Mili (with excess baggage in her backpack) and I (with excess baggage on me!) were lagging behind! But in spite of our comfortable pace we managed to cover enough distance while daylight was still on our side. Then, the best part of the trek began.
Walking in the dark has a different charm about it. Firstly, it’s never completely dark. Once your eyes adjust, there’s this ghostly glow on everything. It’s not extremely beautiful. It’s more surreal, if anything. We could probably have walked on for what seemed like ages. The terrain rarely changed. It was the same undulating road, with either barren land or interruptions of dry vegetation juxtaposed against the now blue, black surrounding earth on both sides. That’s when a sort of a high sets in. it’s what makes feet fall in front of each other even when they’re tired. It’s this high we all were searching for. It’s exactly what makes 12 people come to the middle of nowhere and exert themselves after a tiring work week. Some call it Biophilia. In some cases its spread by the infectious bite of the WCNC Bug. Highly contagious…
At one point we halted at a small rocky junction. A quick break for tired feet. We even came across a lone trekker. There is probably something even more romantic about walking along these trails alone. We would never know. Our group by now had connected well. Almost all of us knew each other from earlier camps and treks. This was a good time to catch up.
There were parts of the trek when it got too dark. It was where there were sufficiently dense deciduous forests looming over the path to hide away the moonlight. Powerful torches came to aid and we successfully made it through these patches without tripping over rocks or treading over any snakes or other ground-dwelling wildlife in the dark (or so we believe).
After what seemed like a long time, we reached the village at the base of the fort. It’s a hamlet really, with a school and half a dozen houses and shops. A local elderly man advised us to set up camp right there. The fort at night isn’t safe, the villagers say. But coming up till here and not going up would have been pointless. So, on we marched.
In the short hike up to the temple below the fort, Commander-in-chief, along with Comrades Mili, Supraket, Rohan, Jovy and Ryan collected dry sticks, leaves and firewood. While some got busy trying to light a fire to boil water, Kedar was shooting off into bouts of paranoia and was mistaking the local emaciated dogs to be leopards!
But soon, all fear of any non-existent wild animals disappeared and stomachs started growling. After burning all those calories in the hike up, we promptly compensated by hogging on large quantities of cup noodles, parathas, eggs, bread, cheese and popcorn. Ryan, being creative as he is, even mixed a few of these together to come up with a culinary masterpiece!
Nothing could have made the night better, but something did. The one thing that tells you that you’re not in the city- a clear starry sky. It was something amazing. The moon had almost set by then and the stars became clearer. I tried for a moment to locate constellations but gave up. It’s at these times, when you’re looking at huge, burning balls of fire thousands and millions of light-years away that you begin to feel infinitesimally small. It’s a wonderful feeling.
Soon, tired and well fed, we dived headlong into deep slumber. The ones who did stay awake longer than the rest had to listen to the sounds of the forest form a melody with the resonating snores of the rest of us. But we only snore when we’re tired, don’t we?
The next morning, we decided to go right up to the top of the fort. After a climb that took not more than 20 minutes, we were overlooking the whole path we had trekked the previous day. It was a view from the top that words like breathtaking or splendid would only belittle. We’d all been to possibly more beautiful faraway places on previous camps. But when you know you’ve walked 13 kms oneway for this, it just make the place that much more special. Finally, we were, literally, high on Rajmachi.
We spent a few silent and some not-so-silent moments there. It was more relaxing than the whole night’s sleep hadn’t been. It really was something else. We even discovered a little bat-inhabited cave on the way.
The way down was quick and almost effortless. We reached the base village where we had a superbly delicious and ridiculously inexpensive breakfast of Poha and Nimbu Pani, prepared by a local household.
By this time it was almost 9 a.m. in the morning. Walking back in the increasingly ferocious sun would have been nothing short of suicide. So we took a jeep back to the station. It was a bumpy ride. But since we were 12 of us plus a driver squeezed into a sumo, we were well cushioned against the impact of the road.
In less than an hour or so we reached the Lonavala. The long trek up, the stay at the temple, the awesome starry sky, the climb to the fort in the morning, everything in less than 24 hours. We were definitely high on Rajmachi.
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